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I'm not sure we could do that but I'm sure that there are many people who would like to do that. Maybe next week he won't show up. I actually had one person trying to defend his actions yesterday.
It definitely ruined the vibe because we all had to flip again for partners. Luckily I was not in his group and my partner and I came in second and got our money back.
My doubles partner told me that someone once asked our pesky irritant guy for some advice in disc golf. His reply was to not be hateful or judgemental. LOL. He can't follow his own advice.
I've only met ONE guy like this thus far. EXACTLY the same from the sounds of it. I was out playing a local course with my two boys. Old guy comes up behind us, so we let him play through. Never said a word to us. His shot off the next tee wound up high in some trees. I pointed out where it went to him and BARKED at me, "I know where the F----n thing went." I was Immediately Pissed cause I had a 9 and 5 year old with me. I gave him a look and walked off not wanting to make a scene in front of my kids.
We caught up to him a couple holes later at a teepad. ALL of us held Perfectly still as we got within 30 ft of the pad. NO NOISE, NO MOVEMENT from us, NOTHING.... He ganks a shot Way right into a tree and turns around and yells, "Why don't you keep those F----n Kids QUIET!" I immediately starting losing composure. I told him to watch his mouth and they had not made a noise. He started Spouting off swearing. I put my bag down and walked straight toward him. He stopped yelling as I started walking at him. I got about 10ft from him and told him as calmly and quietly as possible that he was completely out of line, really pissing me off, and if he didn't just walk off, I was going to shut him up and call the cops. He immediately turned and left.
On the way out I asked some course locals who the guy was. They said he was a local Jerk that shows up to doubles drunk, pissed off, and tries to start fights by being a total prick to everyone. I told him what he said in front of my kids and they said they would make his Doubles round very interesting that week.....
Sounds quite similar except our local guy isn't a drunk, just an angry older stoner.
I had to call my doubles partner from yesterday to ask him exactly what our guy's advice statement was because I couldn't remember. We both broke out laughing about his advice to not be hateful or judgemental. He forgot self-centered and neurotic. As we say, "one bad reaction to some blood pressure medication away from a meltdown".
Is this the same "flip cheater" you started a discussion on in Sept? You said you didn't baby people around there, so call him out. Sounds like he's got everyone scared.
We've got a guy somewhat like that. There are two regulars who won't play if they are paired with him (unlikely because we pair pro/adv with int/rec) or even put in his group. He's okay alot of the time, but like an unstable volcano he can go off at any time. Everyone has an unpleasant story starring this guy. He got stabbed once years ago by a guy he popped off to in his car in a bad neighborhood. Whenever I see his car coming two minutes before the flip, I cringe a little. I personally haven't had much trouble with him because when he starts working himself into a rant, I tell him I don't want to hear about it and walk off or I tell him to leave. He puts in work at the park and does more work than a majority of club members, but it is really not worth it. Oh well, he is our cross to bear!
Obviously this guy has not mastered the true 'zen' of the game or life in general.
Unfortunately there can always be someone, either by a bad day, or unfortunately "all the time - a real hole."
If this has become more of an obstacle for peaceful play, discuss it with those in your group about 'how' everyone would like to handle the situation.
Expect confrontation when approaching this guy. Give him an option of follow the 'conduct' rules or be gone.
And by experience don't take this all on by yourself. He will hopefully see 'beyond his world' (hopefully) that everyone else sees a problem.
But most unlikely he will not. Sad but true. Everyone sees things differently, especially those on the extreme. It is usually all about them.
And all this has nothing to do with age. Seen various ages act this way..