That is so true! I'm one of the few Disc Golf girls who didn't have a boyfriend bring her into the game; I got hooked on my own. I've dated some disc golfers, I've taught some guys to play that I've dated and I've dated guys who don't care for the game. I figured out that I'm the type who wants my significant other's support, whether it be playing or caddying for me, he should be out there with me enjoying my favorite thing!
If you want her to be supportive, just talk to her about it. Girls like that communication stuff. If she doesn't want to compromise, maybe you should reconsider the relationship. There's plenty of FUN girls out there.
Depends on how you look at it. That sounds like quite the ultimatum, but maybe they're just not compatible (hence the discussion). That's how I feel when I date someone who doesn't play; life flows better when your favorite people are willing to participate in your favorite activities. I've heard of too many relationship issues because she thinks he plays too much. My best friend went to Worlds with me and left her boyfriend at home. He chastised her every day for not thinking about him enough. That's ridiculous! She was playing disc golf & planned on going to Worlds with me before she even met him. He should be understanding, don't you think?
I've been given just the opposite of that ultimatum. If I have to chose between a guy & disc golf, then ba-bye, I'm gonna go throw!
Don't underestimate the value of having a hobby/obsession that is seperate from your lady. I'm engaged to the love of my life and we've been together for a long while besides. She supports me and my growing brood of discs, and she even comes and plays now and then. Mostly, she lets me have my own space to blow off steam and relax on my own. I can't say that I wouldn't want her out there more often though, so there's something to be said for both sides.