Sensei Mike wishes to speak on behalf of Sensei Jerry from the land of toomuchdebt.
He told me during my daily resting nap ( from the everlasting flow of wine ) that you should follow these words... " You must learn the word of Ren.. Fulfilling ones responsibilities toward others" " Do not depend on Li ( the social norm ) and do what's right for others." ( that being your wife )
Mr. Ed hit it on the head as well. Good luck with your endeavors.
---Words from Sensei Jerry ( a loyal follower of Confucius )...
---Brought to you by.. Sensei Mike ~Loyal follower and Leader of the Sensei Jerry's Disc Dojo