Share 'Be mean in tournament play ,being nice will cost you strokes'

This is the second tournament in a row that I tried to be nice and it has cost me strokes ,yesterday during the first day of our state championships 2nd round I asked for a spot on a disc eating hole and was over ruled by group consensus my disc turned over early went into a stand of spruce and I was the only one to get a decent look at where it went.I walk down to spot for the other 3 (mistake)…