Sometimes it seems there are too many hands in the cookie jar. It is so hard to keep everything in order when so many people try to "help out". Usually I find that the motive is merely that the "helpers" think they can do a better job or that the job will not get done if they don't do their part. The kicker is the way they act. They act as if they are pissed at the world and are short and rude to everyone. Hey! Do us a favor. If you're not asked to help, don't help. Sit back and just relax. We don't need your help and we don't want your help.....unless you are sincere and not condescending.